free · 126 questions · from the lovelee app
questions to ask your partner
deep ones, funny ones, sweet ones and quick this-or-thats. tap through them one at a time, or send one to your person and make them answer.
what did you actually think of me the first time we met?
126 questions in this deck
deep questions to ask your partner
for the real conversations. no lying allowed.
slightly uncomfortable questions · no lying allowed
- what did you actually think of me the first time we met?
- what's one thing i do that you pretend not to notice?
- what's a text of mine you've read way more than once?
- what's something you've never told me because it's embarrassing?
- what's the most dramatic thing you've done because of me?
- when did you first stalk my socials, and how deep did you go?
- what's one thing you'd change about our first date?
- have you ever practiced what you'd say to me before saying it?
- what's a habit of mine you were shocked by at first?
- what's the pettiest thing that's ever annoyed you about me?
- what's something you still don't fully get about me?
starts cute, gets real · it gets deeper every card
- what's your secret nickname for me in your head?
- what emoji is basically me?
- what's a photo of us you'd frame?
+8 more “starts cute, gets real” questions in the lovelee app →late night talks · for when you can't sleep
- what's something you've never told anyone?
- when do you feel the most loved by me?
- what's a dream you gave up on that you'd still try?
+7 more “late night talks” questions in the lovelee app (with pro) →slightly uncomfortable pt 2 · still no lying allowed
- what's something i do that you've just accepted at this point?
- what's a text from me that made you nervous?
- which of my friends could you not survive a road trip with?
+8 more “slightly uncomfortable pt 2” questions in the lovelee app (with pro) →no sugarcoating · pick the honest answer
- what's the most annoying thing i do? (stealing the blanket / sending 40 tiktoks a day / saying "i'm fine" / nothing, you're perfect)
- what do i do when i'm upset? (go quiet / overthink everything / need snacks / text you a paragraph)
- what makes loving me easy? (my laugh / my heart / how much i care / all of it)
+8 more “no sugarcoating” questions in the lovelee app (with pro) →do you really like me? · they get more niche
- what's one small thing i do that you didn't expect to like, but you do?
- what's your favorite nickname i call you?
- what do you always brag to your friends about me?
+8 more “do you really like me?” questions in the lovelee app →sweet & romantic questions
for when you miss each other.
extra sweet questions · for when you miss each other
- what's a tiny moment with me you replay on bad days?
- what do you miss most when we're apart?
- when did you last feel really proud of me?
- what's something i do that makes you feel safe?
- what's a song that makes you think of me?
- what's your favorite thing about the way i love you?
- what's a small thing i did once that you never forgot?
- where in the world do you most want to hold my hand?
- what's one word you'd use for us, and why that one?
- what do you want to tell me more often?
- what's the first thing you want to do next time we're together?
only you can answer this · send it to them
- what's a song that only makes sense because of us?
- what's the inside joke we'll still laugh at when we're 80?
- what's a place that will always feel like ours?
+7 more “only you can answer this” questions in the lovelee app →how do you see me... really? · make them pick
- what part of me is impossible to replace? (my hugs / my laugh / the way i listen / how safe you feel with me)
- what do you secretly admire most about me? (my confidence / my kindness / how strong i am / my patience (with you))
- which compliment fits me best? ("you make people feel seen" / "you're so easy to be around" / "you make life lighter" / "you love with your whole heart")
+8 more “how do you see me... really?” questions in the lovelee app (with pro) →would you still choose me? · be honest
- would you move to a new city for me?
- would you give up your favorite food forever to keep me?
- would you still choose me if i snored every night?
+7 more “would you still choose me?” questions in the lovelee app →funny questions for couples
to see how well you really know each other.
funny questions · see how well you know each other
- what would i be famous for if i got famous by accident?
- which cartoon character am i, honestly?
- what would my villain origin story be?
- if i were a snack, which one would i be?
- what would i do first in a zombie apocalypse?
- what's my most iconic facial expression?
- which animal would i be, and why is it a sleepy one?
- what would my reality show be called?
- what's the weirdest thing you've seen me eat?
- if i had a catchphrase, what would it be?
- who would play me in a movie about us?
go annoy each other · you have to answer all of them
- what's my most annoying habit you secretly find cute?
- rate my cooking 1-10, and be honest
- who's the bigger baby when sick, me or you?
+8 more “go annoy each other” questions in the lovelee app →hypothetical questions · that get weird fast
- why weren't you at my 5th birthday party?
- why were you so happy in photos from before you met me?
- if i turned into a pig, would you still kiss me?
+7 more “hypothetical questions” questions in the lovelee app →"how well do you know me?" questions
perfect for date night or a long drive.
lowkey nosy questions · to ask each other
- what was the exact moment you knew you liked me?
- what did you tell your friends about me after our first date?
- how far back did you scroll on my profile before we dated?
- what's something about me that's obvious to everyone except me?
- what's something i do that still gives you butterflies?
- be honest... which of my outfits is your favorite?
- what's the first thing you noticed about me?
- what's a habit of mine you secretly copied?
- who did you tell first when we became official?
- what's your favorite memory of us so far?
how well do you know me? · no cheating
- what's my go-to coffee or drink order?
- what's my comfort movie?
- what would i order at our favorite restaurant?
+7 more “how well do you know me?” questions in the lovelee app →prove you're obsessed · one answer each
- what's my go-to snack? (chips / chocolate / fruit / anything, honestly)
- where would i pick for date night? (cozy at home / fancy dinner / an adventure / wherever you are)
- what do i do first when i wake up? (check my phone / hit snooze / brush my teeth / text you)
+7 more “prove you're obsessed” questions in the lovelee app →can you pass my quiz? · 8 out of 11 to pass
- what's the fastest way to cheer me up? (get me a little gift / give me a long hug / make me laugh / give me space first)
- we have a free day together. what do i pick? (stay in and watch something / a spontaneous road trip / try a new café / go shopping)
- what do i do when i can't sleep? (scroll on my phone / wake you up to talk / overthink everything / go find a snack)
+8 more “can you pass my quiz?” questions in the lovelee app (with pro) →lowkey nosy questions pt 2 · you have to tell the truth
- what did i do early on that made you think "okay, this one's different"?
- how many times did you check my story before we dated?
- what's something you noticed about me early on but never said?
+8 more “lowkey nosy questions pt 2” questions in the lovelee app (with pro) →this or that & would you rather
quick picks. say it at the same time.
this or that · say it at the same time
- big spoon or little spoon?
- movie night in or date night out?
- good morning text or goodnight call?
- matching pjs or matching phone cases?
- plan the date or be surprised?
- sunrise or sunset?
- beach trip or mountain trip?
- breakfast in bed or late night snacks?
- love letter or surprise gift?
- slow dance or road trip singalong?
would you rather · couples edition
- meet 5-year-old me or 80-year-old me for a day?
- i pick your outfits for a week or your haircut once?
- read my screen time or my search history from the week we met?
- have our own theme song or our own holiday?
- relive our first kiss or skip ahead and see us in ten years?
- a cozy cabin weekend or a big city trip?
- only text in voice notes or only text in memes for a week?
- cook dinner together every night or never cook again?
- know what i'm thinking or always know what i want to eat?
- share one toothbrush or one phone for a month?
no "both" allowed · pick one. no dodging.
- my hugs or my kisses? (hugs / kisses)
- a night in with me or a night out with me? (night in / night out)
- my laugh or my smile? (laugh / smile)
+8 more “no "both" allowed” questions in the lovelee app (with pro) →either way you're cooked · no right answer
- i read all your texts, or all your search history? (texts / search history)
- i plan every date, or you plan every date? (i plan / you plan)
- we only eat your cooking, or only mine, for a month? (yours / mine)
+7 more “either way you're cooked” questions in the lovelee app →aww or eww? · couples edition
- matching pajamas (aww / eww)
- baby voices in public (aww / eww)
- sharing one milkshake with two straws (aww / eww)
+8 more “aww or eww?” questions in the lovelee app →aww or eww? pt 2 · couples edition
- sharing a toothbrush (aww / eww)
- sharing your location 24/7 (aww / eww)
- matching outfits on purpose (aww / eww)
+8 more “aww or eww? pt 2” questions in the lovelee app (with pro) →yes or no? · no explaining allowed
- do you have a favorite photo of me saved? (yes / no)
- have you ever practiced a compliment before saying it to me? (yes / no)
- have you ever fake slept so i'd keep playing with your hair? (yes / no)
+8 more “yes or no?” questions in the lovelee app →questions about your future together
dream big together.
future us · dream big together
- where do you see us in 5 years?
- what's one tradition we should start this year?
- what does our dream home have that no other home does?
+7 more “future us” questions in the lovelee app (with pro) →long distance relationship questions
miles apart, still us.
long distance edition · miles apart, still us
- what's the first thing we're doing when we see each other?
- what time zone joke never gets old for you?
- which call of ours was your favorite?
+7 more “long distance edition” questions in the lovelee app →questions to ask your boyfriend or girlfriend
every question here works for a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife. new-ish couple? start with the funny and how well do you know me ones. together for years? go straight to the deep and future sections. and if you want to know how they feel most loved, take our love language quiz for couples together.
a new question every day
lovelee is a free app for you and your partner. every day a new question washes up in a bottle. you each answer on your own phone, and their answer stays sealed until you’ve both replied. plus 280+ questions in decks like these.
questions about these questions
what are good questions to ask your partner?+
the best ones are specific and a little vulnerable, like "what's a tiny moment with me you replay on bad days?" or "what did you actually think of me the first time we met?". mix a few deep ones with funny ones so it feels like a conversation, not an interview.
what questions should i ask my boyfriend or girlfriend?+
every question on this page works for a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife. if you're just starting out, try the funny and "how well do you know me?" sections. if you've been together a while, the deep and future sections hit harder.
what are deep questions to ask your partner?+
deep questions ask about feelings, memories and the future: what they've never told anyone, what they'd change about how you fight, where they see you two in five years. start with the deep section above, and take turns answering.
how do we use these questions on a date night?+
put your phones on the table, open the card deck above and take turns tapping "next question". you both answer each one before moving on. pick a section first if you want it to stay light (funny, this or that) or go deep.
is there an app with questions for couples?+
yes: lovelee puts a new question in a bottle on your shared boat every day. you each answer on your own phone, and your partner's answer stays sealed until you've both replied. it also has whole question decks like the ones on this page.