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love language quiz for couples
find out how you feel most loved, then send it to your partner and see both of your love languages side by side.
15 quick picks. no sign-up. about 2 minutes.
for each one, tap the one that would make you feel more loved.
the 5 love languages, explained
words of affirmation
you feel most loved when it's said out loud. a random 'i'm proud of you' or a note you weren't expecting can carry you for a week.
how to speak it
- tell them one specific thing you love about them today, not just 'love you'
- leave a note somewhere they'll find it later
- hype them up before something they're nervous about
quality time
you feel most loved when you have their full attention. phones down, no rushing, just the two of you.
how to speak it
- plan one phone-free hour this week that's just for them
- ask a real question and let the answer run long
- turn an errand into a mini date
receiving gifts
you feel most loved by the little things that say 'i was thinking of you'. it's never about the price, it's about being remembered.
how to speak it
- bring home their favorite snack for no reason
- write down the things they mention wanting, and surprise them later
- keep something small from a special day and give it back to them
acts of service
you feel most loved when someone lightens your load. doing the thing you dread says 'i've got you' louder than words.
how to speak it
- do the chore they hate before they get to it
- take one stressful errand off their plate this week
- ask 'what can i take care of for you today?' and mean it
physical touch
you feel most loved up close. holding hands, a long hug, sitting a little closer than you need to.
how to speak it
- hug them for a full ten seconds after a long day
- hold their hand on the next walk
- sit close on the couch even when there's room
questions couples ask
what are the 5 love languages?+
words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service and physical touch. they're five common ways people give and feel love. the idea comes from gary chapman's book the 5 love languages.
is this love language quiz free?+
yes. no sign-up, no email. it's 15 quick either/or picks and takes about two minutes.
how do i compare love languages with my partner?+
take the quiz, tap 'send to my partner', and send them the link. when they finish, you'll both see your results side by side, plus little ways to speak each other's language.
can my love language change?+
it can. stress, distance and new seasons of life can shift what feels most loving to you, so it's worth retaking every now and then.
what if my partner and i have different love languages?+
that's really common, and totally fine. the trick is giving love in their language, not just yours. your results come with simple ideas for each one.
is this the official love languages assessment?+
no. this is lovelee's own short, unofficial quiz, made for fun and for starting good conversations. for the original, check out gary chapman's book.
looking for something to talk about? questions to ask your partner
the idea of love languages comes from gary chapman’s book the 5 love languages. this is lovelee’s own short, unofficial quiz.